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Private questionnaire · 28 questions

Co-parenting partnership

Ко-пэрентинг без романтических отношений

For two people considering intentionally raising a child together without requiring a romantic relationship.

28 questions · about 13 minutes

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Before you beginThese questions are not a contract and do not create legal obligations. They are designed to help two people assess whether they can raise a child together without being in a romantic relationship.

Separate answers

Your partner cannot see your choices before answering.

No account

No name, phone number, email, or exact age.

A conversation map

See alignments, differences, and what to discuss.

How it works

  1. 1. You answer privately.
  2. 2. Send your partner a private link.
  3. 3. The comparison opens after both finish.

The private link will open directly in the selected language.

How should answers be shown after completion?

Individual answers are shown only if both people consent.

AI is not used at this stage. You can separately decide whether to allow AI-assisted analysis after your partner also consents.

Where alignment matters most

  • • conception method and medical screening
  • • legal parentage
  • • the child’s primary home and parenting time
  • • money
  • • parenting and discipline
  • • relocation
  • • future partners’ involvement

Clarify major differences here before planning a child.

What is usually negotiable

  • • holidays and vacations
  • • communication frequency and planning

A separate legal step

In the United States, each person should consult an independent family-law attorney experienced in assisted reproduction and parentage before conception. This is especially important with donor material, home insemination, or IVF: biological connection, a birth certificate, and legal parentage do not always mean the same thing. Requirements vary by state, clinic, and circumstances.

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