Private questionnaire · 23 questions
Voluntary patriarchal marriage
Добровольный патриархальный брак
For couples who voluntarily choose a husband-led family model with clearly defined responsibility, boundaries, and safeguards for both spouses.
23 questions · about 11 minutes
Progress is saved automatically. Email is optional and only helps recover your private access.
Before you beginBoth partners answer separately. These questions are not a contract and are intended only to compare expectations. Choosing this model does not mean giving up the wife’s legal rights, financial access, personal safety, or right to sexual consent.
Separate answers
Your partner cannot see your choices before answering.
No account
No name, phone number, email, or exact age.
A conversation map
See alignments, differences, and what to discuss.
How it works
- 1. You answer privately.
- 2. Send your partner a private link.
- 3. The comparison opens after both finish.
The private link will open directly in the selected language.
AI is not used at this stage. You can separately decide whether to allow AI-assisted analysis after your partner also consents.
Where alignment matters most
- • limits on the husband’s authority
- • the wife’s financial access and security
- • the wife’s ability to work
- • expectations about children and domestic labor
- • sexual compatibility and mutual consent
- • the wife’s right to disagree
- • consequences of abuse of authority
Clarify major differences here before making important joint decisions.
How to read the result
A combination of complete authority for the husband, no independent money for the wife, and no ability to refuse or leave is a serious warning sign. Those are conditions for control, not a voluntary family model.
Model principle
A workable voluntary patriarchal model gives the husband not only more authority but more responsibility: to provide, consider his wife’s view, accept the consequences of decisions, and never use his position for coercion.