About the project
Important conversations deserve a calmer beginning.
Clear About Us is a private conversation tool for people who want to understand expectations before making major decisions about relationships, family, money, children, or living together.
How it works
- 01Choose the relationship questions that matter now.
- 02Answer separately without seeing the other person’s answers.
- 03See what aligns and what is worth discussing.
Publisher and developer
DowidAI
Clear About Us is the first public product from DowidAI, an independent product studio building clear digital tools for important decisions.
What the service is—and is not
The service does not grade a relationship or decide who is right. Its purpose is to turn vague expectations into specific questions and give both people a fair opportunity to answer.
It is not couples therapy, legal advice, or an emergency service. Agreements recorded here may not be legally enforceable. Important legal or safety decisions should be discussed with an appropriate licensed professional.
Questions, articles and editorial approach
Questions are written to turn broad relationship labels into concrete choices about money, roles, children, living arrangements, conflict, and safety. They are reviewed for neutral wording, bilingual meaning, and whether a difference can lead to a useful conversation.
Legal and statistical explanations link to primary sources where appropriate. The questionnaires are educational conversation tools; they have not been clinically validated and do not diagnose compatibility.
Articles are published by the Clear About Us editorial team, part of DowidAI, not presented as an individual clinician’s or lawyer’s opinion. Research summaries distinguish associations from causes and describe limitations; a statistic does not predict the future of an individual couple. Article pages show update dates; publication dates are included in structured metadata.
Found an error or a source that needs updating? Email the article link and the specific passage to dowidaisupport@gmail.com.
Help us choose what to build next
The project is being developed as an early product. Feedback from real conversations directly influences new questionnaires and features.
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