Intimacy
Attraction, intimacy, fidelity, desire, and consent.
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52 questions worth asking before assumptions become conflict.
A familiar playing-card deck in English and Russian. Choose a card, answer it together, and continue online only when you want to.
На берегу · Clear About Us
52 острых вопроса
52 sharp questions
Русский + English
54 standard playing cards · 18+
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Four suits · four conversations
Money
Income, debt, providing, property, and financial power.
Life together
Marriage, roles, home life, children, relatives, and relocation.
Boundaries & future
Boundaries, conflict, control, safety, and separation.
How to play
Five cards each. One honest question per turn.
- 1Shuffle the deck and deal five cards to each person.
- 2On your turn, choose one card from your hand and ask your partner.
- 3Your partner answers first. Then answer the same question yourself.
- 4You may ask one follow-up, but do not argue with the answer.
- 5Discard the used card and draw another so you have five again.
- 6Stop after ten cards, after 30 minutes, or whenever you have had enough.
Either person may skip any question without explaining. An honest answer is not consent to an action. Stop if the conversation becomes unsafe.
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Q♥Честность · Honesty
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RUЕсли влечение к партнёру исчезнет, ты скажешь об этом прямо или промолчишь?
ENIf attraction to your partner disappears, would you say so openly or stay silent?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+Q♥
A♦Власть · Power
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RUЕсли один оплачивает всё, получает ли он право принимать больше решений?
ENIf one partner pays for everything, do they get more say in decisions?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+A♦
K♣Иммиграция · Immigration
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RUЕсли один помогает другому с иммиграцией, вправе ли он ожидать что-то взамен?
ENIf one partner helps the other immigrate, may they expect anything in return?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+K♣
A♠Точка выхода · Exit point
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RUПосле какого поступка ты точно закончишь отношения?
ENWhat action would make you end the relationship for good?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+A♠
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2♥Забота · Care
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RUЧто помогает тебе чувствовать себя любимым или любимой?
ENWhat makes you feel loved?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+2♥
3♥Влечение · Attraction
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RUНужно ли тебе сразу почувствовать сильное влечение, чтобы отношения стали серьёзными?
ENDo you need strong attraction from the start for a relationship to become serious?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+3♥
4♥Нежность · Affection
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RUСколько нежности и прикосновений тебе нужно вне секса?
ENHow much affection and touch do you need outside of sex?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+4♥
5♥Разговор · Communication
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RUЛегко ли тебе сказать партнёру, что тебе нравится и чего хочется в сексе?
ENIs it easy for you to tell a partner what you enjoy and want sexually?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+5♥
6♥Частота · Frequency
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RUЕсли одному хочется секса намного чаще, как искать решение без давления и чувства долга?
ENIf one person wants sex much more often, how can you find a solution without pressure or obligation?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+6♥
7♥Инициатива · Initiation
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RUЧто ты почувствуешь, если инициировать близость почти всегда придётся тебе?
ENHow would you feel if you almost always had to initiate intimacy?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+7♥
8♥Согласие · Consent
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RUКак ты хочешь, чтобы партнёр реагировал, когда ты не хочешь близости?
ENHow would you want a partner to respond when you do not want intimacy?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+8♥
9♥Моногамия · Monogamy
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RUЧто для тебя уже измена: секс, поцелуй, флирт, переписка или тайная связь?
ENWhat already counts as cheating to you: sex, kissing, flirting, messages, or a secret connection?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+9♥
10♥Порнография · Pornography
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RUПросмотр порно — это измена, нарушение границ или личное дело каждого?
ENIs watching porn cheating, a boundary violation, or a personal choice?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+10♥
J♥Прошлое · Past
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RUЧто тебе важно знать о сексуальном прошлом партнёра, а что можно оставить в прошлом?
ENWhat do you need to know about a partner's sexual past, and what can stay in the past?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+J♥
Q♥Честность · Honesty
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RUЕсли влечение к партнёру исчезнет, ты скажешь об этом прямо или промолчишь?
ENIf attraction to your partner disappears, would you say so openly or stay silent?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+Q♥
K♥Измена · Cheating
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RUЕсли партнёр изменит, ты хочешь, чтобы он сам рассказал, даже если это разрушит отношения?
ENIf your partner cheated, would you want them to tell you, even if it ended the relationship?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+K♥
A♥Выбор · Choice
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RUЕсли вы любите друг друга, но совсем не совпадаете в сексе, стоит ли оставаться вместе?
ENIf you love each other but are completely incompatible sexually, should you stay together?
♡ CLEAR ABOUT US · 18+A♥
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